May You Receive More Than You Give

This phrase came to mind recently as I listened to Chamini, a regular volunteer, share details of her unscheduled visit that afternoon.  For those who know Chamini, you know that she's exuberant and loves to laugh!

Chamini leads exercise classes in Assisted Living on Wednesdays, and afterwards she visits with several residents in the nursing home.  This particular week she changed her schedule to Thursday because of a work obligation, but on Wednesday afternoon, she found herself at Brooke Grove.  It had been a tough day at work, and even though she wasn't supposed to be on campus, she decided to stay anyway.

The residents were surprised to see her when she went to her usual building in The Meadows.  She happened to have brought a tape from the library where she works - a tape of World War II songs - which she played, and the residents loved singing along!  She also led some exercises, which the residents thoroughly enjoyed.  She spent an hour chatting with several residents, sharing stories and laughter with them.  One resident spoke for all when she said to Chamini, "It's nice to see someone so happy and joyous.  You make us feel good!"

Chamini always speaks with me in the office as she signs out, and I could tell she was extra bubbly.  After admitting her mix-up, she told me about her visits.  Referring to one resident who was particularly cheered to see her, Chamini said, "It made me feel better to make her feel better."

She continued, "I'm glad I came in today.  It was great to be appreciated like that and I couldn't have come at a better time.  That was the best experience!"

She went home all smiles, cheered by those whose lives she had touched.